3 Ways to respond to criticism

This week, the 2 Minute Tip discussed ways to respond to criticism, including acknowledging clouding and probing. Let’s look at a few examples of each.

“If you continue driving like a madman, you’re going to get in an accident!”

• Acknowledging: I guess I’m being a little reckless. 

• Clouding: It’s true, I’m in a hurry.

• Probing: What is it about my driving that bothers you?

“You spend a lot of time with your plants, but nothing else gets your attention around here.”

• Acknowledging: I have let a lot of things slide to pursue my hobby. I’ll work on that. 

• Clouding: It’s true, some things don’t get my attention when I’m gardening. 

• Probing: What would you prefer I spend my time on?

“You never get involved. One harsh word and you’re gone.”

• Acknowledging: You’re right. I don’t get deeply involved with anyone.

• Clouding: It’s true. I’m a confrontation avoider.

• Probing:  What bothers you about my not getting involved?

Now your turn. What’s an example of each technique in response to: “Your public speaking skills are pretty bad.”