How to talk to annoying people

Yes, you can talk to someone you dislike.

People assume that shared similarities are what bond us together, but you can have a lot in common with someone and still dislike them.

Research tells us what can really make us like someone is sharing an experience and feeling we’re having the same response to it.

This is called I-sharing.

Whether it’s laughing or cringing at the same jokes or celebrating a win of a shared favorite sports team, relating in the moment can be a powerful bonding experience.

Here’s a Confident Communicator Challenge

Today, think of someone you may find annoying and try to have an I-sharing experience with them. Let me know how it goes.