Say nice things about people behind their backs
Gossip is part of the workplace. It’s natural and human…but it doesn’t need to be negative.
What goodwill can you build by praising people behind their backs?
There’s no downside. You’ll be seen in a positive light by the person you told. If word gets back to the subject, they’re more inclined to like you. You feel good about yourself.
This approach can help you build allies at a new job, meet people in new places, and help build your reputation.