Don’t Block a Mitzvah

In Judaism, there’s a beautiful concept called a mitzvah — a good deed or act of kindness. But here’s the catch: if you refuse someone’s help, you block their opportunity to add some good to the world.

How often do you say, “Oh no, I’ve got it,” or, “I don’t want to bother you,” when someone offers help? We all do it.

Here’s a counterintuitive truth…We don’t build trust by offering help. We build trust by asking for it.

Asking for help says, “I value your skills and strengths. I trust you enough to let you in.” That’s a powerful message.

So, the next time someone offers a hand, don’t block the mitzvah. Let them help. And if you need something, ask. You’re giving others a chance to step up, to connect, and to feel needed.

Trust grows in those moments.